Either my description isn't very good, or you don't have a 1988 motor/throttle body in that truck.
Here's a pic off the Internet showing the throttle body that the 3.9 got that year:
At the right, that solenoid thing, with the wiring harness running across to the left in front of the throttle body? That's the throttle kicker.
Here's another image, the throttle kicker is right over the front spring, with what looks like a hex bolt sticking into it:
Now, if yours doesn't look like that, then yes, it's probably an IAC, and we'll have to find out what motor you've gotten grafted into the truck.
If, however, that's what you're seeing - that's the throttle kicker, there IS no IAC on the throttle body (it does the air bleed by kicking the throttle open a bit), and I have NO idea what you were cleaning and looking at!
But to get back - unplugging the IAC should cause a motor to stumble and almost, or possibly, die.
Unplugging the throttle kicker should kick RPMs up to about 2500 according to the service manual.
If unplugging whatever you have didn't make any difference, I think we've found where your problem is.
RwP