I just now got out from underneath my Dak to check and firstly I will say: that there were no spots on the garage floor and nothing wet where the pan mates with the tranny (that typed, I put that new pan on only about two to three weeks ago) but I am afraid that my results will probably not help you as I was surprised to find that mine were considerably under-torqued (after reading your post, I thought that I had probably over-torqued). My digital ft. lb. torque wrench was showing the pan bolts breaking loose to turn in the tightening direction at anywhere between only 6.8 (or so) to 7.7 (or so) ft. lb.s. Which I realize is not a lot more than half the torque that is called for.
But to tell you how I got there, I used a 1/4 " dr ratchet to initially snug everything down in a continuing cross-wise sequence/pattern and then I switched to a 3/8" dr ratchet & made numerous more incremental passes until "I liked the feel" of all the bolts. (I will note that the bolts which were on the tighter side were the aft bolts, meaning the bolts that had the cross-over pipe of my nearly stock exhaust going over & across them--they were the hardest for me to "feel".)
I know that this method is hardly scientific or professional, & I guess that I will only say in my defense is that I like being able to "feel" those particular bolts torquing into the aluminum, and with any of my larger ft. lb. torque wrenches, I lose the ability for that "feel" (and of my inch lb. torque wrenches, the only one that I trust only goes up to 100 " lb.).
So while I was under there just now, I did go ahead and torque all of them to a uniform 9 ft. lb.s which I realize is still officially under torqued.
I am wondering if the pan you bought may have been warped on delivery? I imagine they are all manufactured in China, & if quality control on them was inconsistent it would not surprise me even a little bit. From reading your posts you are conscientious, so I am thinking you made sure that your gasket didn't roll up or anything in one of the corners (I had that happen to me once, many many moons ago). Did you get your pan from Rock like I did, & if so, was it recent enough ago (I am thinking that it probably wasn't) that they will still warranty it? My experience with Rock is that they have always been good with that if within the time window.